When people say that Anger shows the strength of mind, Im skeptical. Is it true? Does losing your cool and composure mean that you have a strong character?

When you are angry, you dont seem to listen to anyone else and tend to take your decisions without giving a due thinking. In a fit of anger, you dont mind destroying the very things that were produced, nourished by you be it your material belongings or your relationships. You dont think rationally or logically..all you know is how to hurt others...and thats all that you do!

If I think of any merits of being angry, I am blank!! How can anger do good to you? If only you can channelize your anger towards something creative. But how am I supposed to remember that when I am at the tip of anger?

People who are not angered easily are often taken for granted. But in the long run its always them who can control their lives as well as tricky situations. They are also the ones who are approached for advices because their decisions are not made in a sudden surge of emotions but after a well thought process.

I believe, contrary to common belief (anger shows strength of mind), that the one who can control his anger is the bearer of a sound mind!! He is the one who knows how to tackle situations and knows the futility of losing his temper. Such a person is well balanced, objective and visionary. Happiness is just a state of mind..It isnt something that you can get if you buy something.. It comes naturally to you.. We can be happy if we chuck out anger from our lives. Not an easy task, but we have to start with it someday!