Sunday, November 15, 2009

Trust

One of the pillars that gives strength to any relationship.. yes! It is Trust.

When do we know we trust someone?
Whenever I start thinking of him/her as a friend.. when I go to him/her with all my problems. When I tell him/her I am scared of a Lizard and I know that he/she would never play a prank on me with a lizard.
When I decide that I will go for the trip iff he/she would go. When I tell him/her I feel for that hottie!!
It is something which developes all by itself.. It is independent of the amount of time you spend together.. You cant compel anyone to trust you and similarly you yourself cant trust anyone and everyone. It "happens" with some special people.

When you trust you can do anything...inorder to keep up the trust. You surpass your abilities just to make those who trust and love you, gleam with pride. It feels great to be trusted.. to know people believe you. And whenever you are dim.. a simple "I believe you can do it" is a lifesaver!!

Trust is like a Mirror.. you trust and you get trust back. But if you break it, you never get it back. Its like the crack which can be mended but it never really gets ameliorated.

Its the basis of all relationships on Earth... without which life cant be worth living... without which there is a gap..a gap that can be filled by nothing else on the planet because until you trust someone you cant love him/her. Its necessitates the presence of harmony in your life.

The moral of this article is NOT to trust people blindly, but to NEVER break trust. Its the biggest wealth that anyone confers on you. Treasure it.