Love is for a moment, Friends are FOREVER!!!!

I mean it again!!!!
Im not talking about the feeling called "Love"...dont think I can do justice to it!!
What Im here for is friends... Id rather call them saviours...coz be whatever, through thick or thin, they are alwayz standing beside you without a frown on their faces!!! They pull you out of the deepest sorrows in seconds..just with their hugs!!
I call them energisers, they push you out of your laziness...just for that cup of coffee.., they make you wait for a bus in the sun...just to be together!!!
I alwayz believed in making friends and sticking to them forever!!! (that might actualy sound sticky!! but id prefer a "fevicol ka jod" than being alone!!!) and believe me...im still in touch with my best buddy in kindergarden though we hav been away since more than 10 yrs!!!!!!!!
But what matters is that whether I am able to stand by them rather than stick to them!!! Coz its easy to make friends with whom you can hang around, but its tough to earn a friend.

I have seen people who call themselves Best of Friends, pretend to be the coolest around....but who cant stop bitching about each other at every possible opportunity!!
Friendship doesnt need show offs...if you need to be somebody else infront of a friend..then take my word for it...he/she is not a friend....and can never be until you start being yourself!
Friends are those who accept you just as you are...good looking or bad...intelligent or dumb... they like you for what you are not for who you are.
If you have someone like that, you are lucky....and if you dont, try being one yourself....you will soon get one like that!!!
Coming to "Love"...as I said earlier....im probably not the right one to quote on the feeling. But if you ask me, if I can love someone more than anything else on the planet (ofcourse apart from my family n all, and that anything else includes chocolates!!!), I'd say, its my friends.

Who else would come to your rescue at any time by the watch?? Who else would be ready to act like a clown just to make you laugh out hard? Who else would do anything you say, inspite of the fact that they wont get anything in return?? Who else would fight for you when somebody else tries to diminish you? Who else would own you (and your belongings as well! :D) as much as a friend would do?? Who else would understand your mood even when you dont feel like describing whatever you went through? Its a Friend!!

Owning a friend is like planting a tree and nurturing it. Friendship is a treasure for those who recognise... without which life is all dull and dim!!!

This one's for all my friends (wont name you guyz...coz incase i miss sumone...you'll kill me!!)
coz you brought me back to life!!!!

Its tough to be good.

Well when I say "Its tough to be good", I mean every word of it. And by good, ofcourse its my definition of being good!!!
I dont say that being good means you follow your parents and elders blindly, listen and do what is told to you. Go to temples everyday (thats a complete showoff!!! huh!!!), do household chores without an "uh"..(thats too much...i kno!!!)
You can only be good to yourself...by following your own principles. If you try to please people, you'll be good for some and bad for some. If only you are true to your own conscience, can you actualy be satisfied with yourself and "be good" ;-)
But loads of times, there are things and situations that deflect you from your goal, cease you from thinking about your values. And most of the times, when people in your vicinity come to know you well, they try to use your principles against you!!! Your strengths become your weaknesses.... and if you stick to your beliefs, you seem to be weak (but actualy you are brave enough to stand by yourself.)
And then, you have this impression of your's in place...that you are weak or to put it the other way...that you are "good"..(meaning that you are a complete fool!!!!). People take you for granted.. and you dont care about this coz you are in line with your beliefs!!!
But there has to be a limit....you cant let this continue...coz you cant see others take undue advantage of you. This is when you have to modify your values and principles!!! This is when you have to stop being "good"....and when this happens...you are happy!!! you are happy NOT being good!!! you feel contended hitting back on people (not physically hitting okay???)
And so you change....